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Ten Little Chances to be Free ([personal profile] tenlittlebullets) wrote2010-03-23 01:12 am

RIP Mischief, 1994-2010

My cat just died. I've had her since I was six years old.

We adopted her with her brother Rascal (who died a year and a half ago) from the neighbors, who never got their cats neutered and let them wander around the neighborhood breeding like crazy. I'm glad we rescued two of the cats from that kind of life. It was at a block party, everyone was cooing over the litter of new kittens, and my parents had picked out an orange tabby (later to be named Rascal). I, the socially awkward six-year-old who didn't like parties, was off in the backyard eating my hamburger, when a little black nose poked out of the bushes and I discovered that one of the kittens was also avoiding the party. I fed her bits of hamburger. It was love at first sight. My parents were set on adopting Rascal, and I had to beg them to adopt two cats instead of one--then had to beg Neighbor Mommy to give her up, since she'd decided the black kitten was her favorite ("oh no, not Fluffy!").

Missy was my kitty. She was getting old and blind and fat and arthritic, but she was still incredibly sweet and had the most adorable half-stifled "mew?" in the world. Exactly the same as the first day she poked her nose out of the bushes and mewed at me.

She came down with some sort of urinary problem, Mom took her to the vet, and they essentially told her the cat could make it three weeks, tops, and she'd be in pain. So Mom had her put to sleep. I just... wish I could've been there.

[identity profile] icicaille.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my god, I am so sorry. My cat means the world to me and I don't know what I'd do if I had to put her to sleep.

[identity profile] kittycallum.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear about that, she sounds like a really sweet cat. Loved the story of love at first sight -- just adorable, and the name's quite sweet too. It sounds like she had a great life, far better than what she would have known if she'd been left feral, and that you two were a great match, pet-wise.

[identity profile] eppiesue.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
I am truly, incredibly sorry. It's awful when your pet dies, I know that, and to have a cat for such a long time doesn't make in any easier. I know it doesn't help, but I completely understand. We got two kittens, brother and sister, in 1994, too. We had to put her to sleep five years ago, her brother is still alive and fit and wonderful. But everytime I go home I fear it's the last time I see him.
So yes, it's heartbreaking. The only thing that can comfort you is to remember what a good life they had and how great it was together. And that makes it hurt even more, but in the end, it helps. A lot.

[identity profile] mmejavert.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs and love*

[identity profile] lovemoony4ever.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry:(

[identity profile] nowgoesquickly.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
I am so, so sorry. ♥

[identity profile] mmebahorel.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no! Missy!

*hugs* and *sympathy*

[identity profile] endofthewest.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. It sounds like you gave her a good life and a lot of love. ♥

[identity profile] evewithanapple.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

[identity profile] shawk.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] duva.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
Awww, I'm sorry *hugs* :-(

[identity profile] coloneldespard.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 10:05 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. Everyone who has ever loved a pet knows that the loss is the same as any other family member you cherished. And I do know how hard it is not to be there (I was in London when my beloved Gargoyle-Chihuahua died). And you're absolutely right to focus on quality of life...Mischeif was cherished and enjoyed a wonderful life with those who loved her...how many of us, human or other animal species, can say as much at our end of our days.

It's not replacement, but I hope Courfeycat is purring in your lap when next you sit down at the computer.

[identity profile] toi-marguerite.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 12:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh God, I'm so sorry. I was devastated when my cats died and Missy was such a low-stress sweetheart. Call/im/text if you need anything- I'm just a half-hour metro ride away. <3
ext_13408: ((hug))

[identity profile] srevans.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 03:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. Thanks for sharing her with us.

[identity profile] ulkis.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 05:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. The story of how you met her is very sweet.

[identity profile] carey-pontmercy.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. Missy sounds like she must have been a phenomenal cat.